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The other day I was on the way to school to pick up the kids and I found myself feeling…just blah. It was the 83rd day in a row of gray, rainy weather (Mississippi has been taking a page out of Noah and the Ark lately) and I wasn’t looking forward to being forced into mommy-mode in a few moments. The thought crossed my mind of how wonderful it would feel to just keep driving past the school, not a care in the world, and find myself stopping at a spa or store or late lunch with a friend because all of those sounded much more exciting than my actual life.
Ever been there?
It’s times like this when I have to really be intentional to focus on blessings…to bend my thoughts towards gratitude. To notice and appreciate all the things that are life-giving in any given moment. Here are a few that are making my list.
1. Strong coffee. Black for my first cup, thank you very much, and then a little creamer for the cup (or two or three) after that.
2. Concealer. To make me look more awake than I may actually feel some days. I’ve tried quite a few over the years, but this one is a favorite because it blends really well and doesn’t sit in creases under my eyes.
3. The kids being in school. Even though we still have virtual school one day per week, I am thanking the Good Lord for those four days that we are back in school. The kids and I are all better for it.
4. A meal queue. I first got this idea from the Lazy Genius. It has SAVED my sanity and eased my decision fatigue immensely when it comes to planning meals for our week.
5. A reading goal (that I’m actually sticking to). I’ve been following the Modern Mrs. Darcy blog and podcast for years now, as evidenced by the fact that my TBR list now has more books on it than I’ll ever be able to read in my lifetime. And even though I’ve always loved to read, my reading life has been a little…lackluster lately. During this weird pandemic season, I found myself much more likely to play a mindless game on my phone or veg in front of Netflix when I got a bit of down-time. This January however, I was inspired by Anne Bogel’s 2021 Reading Challenge and actually wrote down a list of books that I wanted to read this year, made a stack of the ones that I had, and have given myself a daily reading goal in pages…and it is changing my reading life for the better. I read 4 books by the end of February, which was about my halfway point last year.
6. Gas logs in the fireplace. We have been wanting to get these ever since we bought our house back in 2013 and have just never bitten the bullet. We talked about it again this winter but we couldn’t seem to find the right one in our price range. Finally, Jerrel picked one up almost on impulse one day at the beginning of February at a local store, and even though it was more than we wanted to pay, we were excited about it. It turned out to be a God-send, because TWO DAYS LATER The Winter Storm of 2021 hit, we lost power for 3 days and that became our main heat source. Thank you Jesus.
7. Sunshine. After what felt like the longest two months of the year and a string of rainy, gray, cold days, April has arrived and with it, more sunshine. This Florida girl is HERE FOR IT.
8. Straight hair. I have naturally curly hair, which I actually really like. I went through a year or two where I fell down the #curlygirlmethod rabbit hole and embraced all the curls and let it grow out and was having fun with it. Then we brought Nate and Zoe home from China….and scrunching and deep conditioning and blow-drying and clipping and maintaining my curls simply became too much. So I went to my amazing hairstylist, asked her to give me a cute, edgy short cut that I could wash and straighten and live in for a week with minimal maintenance….and I haven’t looked back since. I LOVE it. It’s working for me in this season.
9. Cozy socks. My son got me a cute pair from Walmart for Christmas (with a little help from Jerrel), and I have lived in them for the past few months. They’re the kind that are supposed to be ‘infused with aloe.’ I have no idea how that actually works, but I do know they are super soft and cozy.
10. Quiet time. This might seem like the 90’s, goody-goody church girl answer but it’s the honest truth. And while I’m mostly (80%) talking about beginning my mornings with coffee and Jesus’ presence and His words, I’m also 20% talking about moments that are actually quiet….as in NO ONE IS TALKING.
What is giving you life these days? What is pushing back the grayness and giving life to your weary heart? I’d love to hear.